Author: debutont

Just a woman in search of self. Looking for meaning, direction & personal growth. Living each moment as if it were the last. Conquering fears & slaying dragons as I climb my own mountain, on my terms & forge my own path to create a life worth living. I created my blog hoping others will join me on my journey & forge their own path to pursue their lives & reach for dreams. The worlds a better place for those who have a dream.

Find Yourself in Love

~Find Yourself, In Love.~

Find Yourself & love yourself first. Seek your dreams & learn to listen to your spirit. Then follow your hearts calling. Find peace being alone with yourself, until you are truly happy in life & love who you are.

Then ~ someday~ You will find yourself walking content in life & someone with a spirit like yours, will come along & truly love you, heart & soul. Then, you will not only feel, but you will be, complete.

Debbie Smalley (Deb’e)

Write it~Say it~Do it

Write it ~ Say it ~ Do it

Take actions to make it happen. Any dream worth having is a dream worth working for.

I had to force myself to post my art in my blog. Not because I thought it was amazing. The perfectionist in me, hid it all away in boxes for years. I did not want the world to see my flaws. I thought I would be stupid for ever thinking it could be anything other then practice doodles on a page.

I created & practiced for 2 years. Then I let myself feel conflicted like I was selfishly wasting my family’s time. Guilt took over, so I slowly packed it up & locked it away for 15 years. I looked at it often & secretly dreamed of someday.

A lot of my posts are incomplete works of practice. Unfinished, raw & full of character flaws.

I show them to you now, because I can truly see them for what they are. They are a picture of my heart, my joy, my pain, my happy, my sad, my dreams. All sadly locked in a box refusing to be freed. Afraid to try, Afraid to be judged or mocked, Afraid to fail or be loved, Afraid to live.

I give them to you now and say, judge me & join me. Open up your box of dreams. Everyone has one somewhere. Let them out, they are your heart & we are more beautiful when we let it live.

DebbieSmalley (Deb’e)

Survey Says???

(Surveys Please)

I created this blog to keep myself motivate & driven in life. I need to remind myself everyday, to push harder, reach higher & never give up on myself or my dreams.

It would be amazing to see if anyone has joined me on my path. Life is a journey best lived when it is shared.

Survey Says. If you are enjoying my feeds please click like, post a comment or click follow on my blog. Anything, to help me see your there.

Xo Happy Travels in this life!

Debbie Smalley ( Deb’e)

Complainers Anonymous

Complainers Anonymous~Complainers anonymous meetings have been cancelled due to the overwhelming amount of complaints given to the complaints Department.

Complaining about everything, only gives you a life worth complaining about. Everyday is just another negative experience, repeated & rewritten, over & over, again & again.

If you concentrate on the negatives, you steel your own happiness & ruin every beautiful moment given to you. You crash your own party & rain on everyone’s parade.

In this existence, your life can never taste sweet enough. Joy will struggle to reach you. Every blessing you are given, is one you will refuse to see. You have now created a life worth complaining about.

Debbie Smalley ( Deb’e)

“There can be beauty in this life, for those who wish to see.”